A short anecdote about childhood curiosity:
When I was ten years old and living in Melbourne, I was in a play presented by a professional theatre company. We did two performances a day. My sister and I shared a part, doing three weeks each of the summer holidays. Since my part required me to wear a lot of stage makeup I usually hung out at the theatre between performances while my fellow actors, all teenagers or adults, would leave the theatre for lunch. One day I decided to remove some of the makeup and go with them. After eating we went to Captain Cook’s Cottage in Fitzroy Gardens in the centre of Melbourne, within walking distance of the theatre.
I vaguely remember from childhood history lessons that waft around the edges of consciousness that after Cook “discovered” Australia and claimed it for Britain, he later circumnavigated and mapped the continent sometime back in the 1700’s. Anyway I knew at the time that this cottage was his residence in England and that it had been dismantled, every piece labelled, and the whole thing shipped to Australia to be reassembled in Melbourne. That act alone fascinated me, and made me curious. Why would they do that?
So we’re all wandering around and in the cottage and I see a garden tap. It has one of those old-fashioned circular handles on top of the faucet used for turning it on and off, and I wanted to know if it worked or not. I wanted to know if they’d bothered to hook up the water when they set up the cottage in Melbourne. So I gave the metal circle a good turn and sure enough water came gushing out. And the metal circle fell off into the mud below . . . . .
As the water gushes all around creating a lake and flowing over the pathway in front of me, as other people visiting the cottage walk by, as I’m scrambling around in the muddy flood below me trying to find the thingy, whatever it’s called, that I need to turn the tap off, the cottage guard arrives. He starts to help me look for it. As people walk by he says Look at her! Isn’t she stupid! Doesn’t she look stupid? Over and over. My fellow actors come to help, but eventually have to get back to the theatre. I’m not on until near the end of the first act so have a little more time, but still, this is taking a long time, with the water continuing to gush out everywhere and me becoming more and more mortified, when finally, suddenly I put my hand on it, lift it up, slip it back into place and turn the tap off. And hightail it back to the theatre just in time.
16-25 March 2019
Ah but that curiosity! It has never left me. Sometimes I think I want to know everything about everything, but really I most want to know about people, the more “exotic”, meaning different, the better. Couple that with a love of bright colours, beautiful clothes, authentic traditions, and a deeply secret lifestyle and I am hooked. I want to know everything. I am a willing catch, reeled in by geishas every time. They are so exotic and rare that any glimpse of them is cause for a quickening of the senses, an excitement, a hope that somehow I’ll get to know/see/experience more of their inscrutable way of being in the world.
When I went to Japan in 2018 I was lucky enough to get a ticket for the annual performance presented by one of Kyoto’s five geisha houses, and then Don and I were able to get tickets for the performance of a different geisha house during our visit in 2019. This second visit we also went to a special pre-show tea ceremony, but our first encounter with geiko, as they are known in the Kyoto dialect, was at Yasaka-Jinja Shrine.
In March, to welcome spring, several of the shrines and temples in Kyoto illuminate their buildings and stay open at night. As part of this festival a small stage was set up in the grounds of Yasaka-Jinja for various performances, including a dance recital by a couple of “apprentice” geisha, known as maiko, accompanied by a musician.
I manage to get to the front, right up against the barrier around the stage. There are deep crowds around me, local people, Japanese people, hardly a foreign tourist in sight. The Japanese love their traditions, and their festivals, and attend them in great numbers with both veneration and delight. They too are curious about the geiko.
They dance with such deep grace on the stage before me. I am beguiled by their gravitas, and the devotion and reverence they have for their art. Every movement is presented with profound respect as a perfect gift. I am beguiled by the elegant exquisite beauty of their outfits. I am beguiled by their poise and presence. No matter what is happening around them, they are there, fully involved in each moment, presenting to us a rare stylised beauty.
It feels like a great privilege to be given this glimpse into their private world.
Though the tradition of the geisha is now hundreds of years old, even the Japanese feel their world is mysterious and difficult to access. Geisha are one of the most iconic cultural images of Japan and yet it is a world steeped in secrecy. They are professional entertainers and companions who attend private dinners, banquets, and other events to take care of the guests. They are trained in the art of conversation, the art of the tea ceremony, and other hospitality skills, as well as being the keepers of time-honoured traditional dance and music.
Their journey begins at about the age of fifteen, though in the past it could be much younger than this. During their training they live in an okiya, or geisha house, under the care of the housemother. While training they cannot enter into a romantic relationship or marry. After introductory training the talented and determined continue on to become maiko, and eventually after several years, geiko. For many years it is a very prescribed lifestyle, but after becoming a geiko they can live separately from the okiya, and can marry.
Ochaya, or teahouses, where geiko dinners take place, are highly exclusive places due to their traditional way of doing business, and will grant entry to trusted customers only. One needs to be referred to gain access, although these days if you have deep pockets you can arrange a dinner with a geisha through the concierge at your 5-star hotel. I found a website that creates “bespoke and unforgettable cultural experiences in Japan” including geisha entertainment. One must contact them to enquire about prices.
We arrive at the theatre early and wait in line watching the maiko and geiko coming and going from a side door and down a lane presumably to another door.
They are like exotic tropical birds with a secret I’ll never penetrate. I cannot imagine a life so structured; I’m too loose at the seams for that so it is all the more fascinating to me. Their outfits alone are enough to make me stare, and smile. So much beauty. Their makeup is strictly traditional, the white paint so they could better be seen by candlelight before the advent of electricity, and their red lips designed to emulate flower petals.
I also watch the others in line, most of whom are Japanese, many of whom are in traditional kimono, including this dazzling beauty, the brightest butterfly of all.
Soon we are beckoned in for the tea ceremony. I’m thrilled with my seat. I can photograph without being seen or disturbing anyone. Attendants graciously serve us a bowl of matcha green tea and a sweet cake, with a bow to every person.
The tea ceremony, like the dances and other traditional Japanese arts, is meticulously orchestrated; every move an exact copy of what has come before, every gesture strictly defined to make it as aesthetically pleasing as possible. It is its own kind of dance, a slow reverent and beautiful presentation.
And now we’re in the theatre ready to watch the show.
Over hundreds of years the geiko communities have developed a distinctive style of music and dance. It is mandatory that the geiko follow the prescribed forms absolutely; there’s very little room for innovation. The dances are highly formalized and strictly choreographed. Most are slow so there’s no chance for speed to hide mistakes; every move must be perfect. Despite the slow movements the dances require strength and stamina, and being invited to participate is considered a great honour. There is fierce competition for the most prominent roles. The staging is elaborate, the costumes breath-taking in their beauty. A huge amount of work goes into each lavish production.
The music begins, the curtain rises. With a bright colourful backdrop the stage is quickly filled with dancers, all in matching equally bright kimono, all moving in synchronous perfection like the corps de ballet. Major characters arrive, dance, and fall away. The scene gives way to a smaller number, or individual dancers, then swells again to many, all accompanied by music from an orchestra of traditional instruments.
Then the scenery changes before our eyes and we are watching a story-based play, a pantomime that we follow as best we can. It’s entertaining and funny. It is followed by more dancing and a grand finale.

Needless to say I am completely enraptured. This performance doesn’t tell me about the daily life of a geisha other than she must spend a lot of time practising and perfecting her art, but it does fill my heart with beauty and grace. I couldn’t possibly ask for more.
We catch final glimpses as we leave the theatre, of the maiko and geiko,
and of an elderly couple I suspect may be VIP members of the geisha house. Perhaps long ago she also was a Geiko. I love that his tie matches her kimono.
I’m still as curious as ever.
In 2018 I attended Kamogawa Odori and in 2019 we went to Kitano Odori. I highly recommend both.
Next post: back to Borneo – orangutangs in the jungle!
All words and images by Alison Louise Armstrong unless otherwise noted
© Alison Louise Armstrong and Adventures in Wonderland – a pilgrimage of the heart, 2010-2020.
Graceful ….
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Yes, very. And so beautiful.
Alison
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How beautiful!
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Oh yes! They’re so refined and elegant, and I love the way they mix up colours and patterns and still make it work.
Alison
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What a wonderful descriptive post with amazing pictures. I too have always been intrigued by the Geishas of Japan. Never lose that curiosity!
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Thank you so much Darlene. I guess what I’d really like is to experience their humanity, the ordinary person underneath the geisha persona, but sadly that’s unlikely to happen.
My curiosity knows no bounds 🙂
Alison
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Magnificent post.
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Thank you so much!
Alison
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Wonderfully descriptive write up. It is true geishas are ‘exotic tropical birds’ and I remember gawking at them in Kyoto.
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Thank you so much. It’s hard not to gawk isn’t it. They’re so exotic, and so inaccessible.
Alison
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I recently read this quote. ‘Every day I discover more and more beautiful things. It’s enough to drive one mad. I have such a desire to do everything, my head is bursting with it’. Claude Monet said it, but I could have, and you could have….
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Oh yes! This is it. Even just walking everyday on the same trail I’m interested in the changes in the forest, and the new growth, and what all the flowers are called. Every little thing. One day I hope we’ll get to travel again.
Alison
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Always I loved the fabrics and silk and the colours…and I read my life as a Geisha…so many layers of women’s lives I don’t know as outsider…like you Alison always curious…such a wonderful narrative and captures of life here again. I miss japan too. Smiles from sunny white rock ☀️☺️🙋♀️Hugs Hedy
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Thanks so much Hedy. Oh the fabrics and patterns and colours have me swooning. You’ve reminded me that there’s a doc about them that I’ve saved to watch. Maybe tonight.
I’m so curious about who they are as people, who are they behind the perfect exquisite persona? And alas I’ll probably never know.
Smiles back from sunny Van. Finally it feels like we might have a bit of summer. Yay!
Alison
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I remember being captivated by the book Memoirs of a Geisha (even more so with the knowledge that it was written by a man). In spite of my fascination, there is something about the look that is not especially beautiful to me (although the fabrics are gorgeous). Maybe it’s the odd makeup … my own curiosity sent me looking for info on the prongs on the back of their necks … or perhaps it’s a subconscious worry about the mystery itself or the idea that whiter faces are more beautiful. I do know enough to realize that it’s mainly their grace and refinement that are revered and admired, and in spite of my own slight resistance to the concept, I loved the post!
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Thanks so much Lexie. I tried to read Memoirs of a Geisha, but didn’t get far, though I’d love to see the movie. I vaguely remember reading somewhere sometime that it (the book) has been debunked.
I agree about the look. I tried to find out why they put red around their eyes and found nothing. I don’t find that attractive at all, or the diminishment of the lips.
I read that the white faces are to be seen better in candlelight, and the prongs on the back of the neck are to elongate the neck. Overall I’m not a fan of the makeup but absolutely love the clothes.
Glad you enjoyed the post anyway.
Alison
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I suppose it is this secrecy and mysteriousness about the life of a geisha that makes it so alluring. You certainly have more insight than many of us. I am totally captivated by their dress and makeup and grace. You mention that their journey begins at age 15. Do you know anything about the young women who decide to do this? Is it a family tradition? Great post.
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Thanks so much Caroline. I don’t know if it’s a family tradition or not, though these days I suspect not. I remember seeing a Joanna Lumley documentary on Knowledge and she interviewed a Maiko. From what I remember she simply made the decision of her own accord to enter that lifestyle.
I agree it’s the secrecy and mysteriousness that’s so alluring. Especially for someone as curious as I am. I want to know who they are as people when they’re not dressed up for their role.
I too am totally captivated – by the whole package. Even though I said to Lexie that I’m not a fan of the makeup I can’t imagine them without it. It adds to the mysteriousness.
Alison
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Excellent portraits.
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Thanks rabirius. They’re such colourful and exotic subjects.
Alison
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Yes. I can see that. And you captured them wonderfully.
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Gorgeous images, Alison. Love the pink-haired beauty. Long live curiosity. Life would be so colorless without it.
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Thank you so much Julie. I was completely delighted with the pink-haired lady – such a joyous and uninhibited expression of herself. Beautiful energy.
I can’t imagine a life without curiosity.
Alison
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You gift by allowing the reader to come along, not only to see the sights, but to have access to your internal lens on the beauty of the discovery of such varied human BEings. I found the incident in the garden so similar to dynamics within dreams, the gushing water, the criticism of people watching, the discomfort. Gave me pause for reflecting how what we think of as life is so similar to dreaming. Thank you for such a rich glimpse, here. x m
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Thank you so much Marga. I feel honoured by your compliment.
That’s so interesting to view the childhood incident as a dream. Looking back it seems as if it was, and no different at all from nightly dreams. This has given me a whole new way to hold it, and to explore it. I think it made me more cautious about following through with curiosity for a while, but it was soon awakened again once I started travelling in my early 20’s.
Alison
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Beautiful homage to Geishas and their traditions, Alison.
Your opening story reveals how indelible certain childhood memories are, especially when they involve stress or embarrassment. I bristled at how the guard reacted with such unkindness. Thankfully your curiosity never waned.
Your images of the geishas are stunning. I was fascinated whenever we saw them entertaining in Japan.
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Thank you so much Jane. I always felt so excited every time I saw a geisha, in part because of the beauty of their outfits, and certainly in large part because a sighting is so rare, adding to the mystery.
Oh that guard at the cottage was just freaked. And it seems to me by that age I’d kind of expected that at least part of the time that was the kind of treatment I deserved from adults. I had a teacher at school who was equally mean. No body gets off scott-free I guess. Looking back I think it did dampen my curiosity for a while but once I discovered travelling in my early 20’s it bloomed again. The only reason I’ve ever travelled is because I’m curious.
Alison
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Those kinds of experiences teaches us that words matter. We see that every day here with our leadership. 😭
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Yes. Words matter so much. And for (all of) you right now I can only imagine how difficult it must be. 😦
A. xo
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What a lovely post, and your photos look like paintings. I also loved your story about Cook’s house – that’s exactly the kind of thing that would happen to me! I too have always been curious about geishas ever since reading “Memoirs of a Geisha” so many years ago.
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Thanks so much Susan (or is it John? 🙂 ) It’s funny, I wasn’t really a little brat as a child, pretty much the opposite actually, but every now and then I just did these crazy unthinking things. I tried so hard to be good lol!
I tried to read Memoirs of a Geisha and couldn’t get into it. Perhaps it was just too dense for me at the time. I’d love to see the movie. Apparently the book has been debunked somewhat, but still from what I understand it paints a pretty true picture. These days I think it’s regarded more as a profession – a very strict one, but still a profession. The trainees come out of it with a huge debt (like a student loan since the geisha house pays for everything) so they must work at least until the loan is paid off. Being as curious as I am I’d love to spend a few days inside a geisha house and get to know some of them as people rather than who they present to the world.
Alison
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It’s Susan 🙂 I was always grabbing and touching things without really thinking. I’m sure I would have grabbed that water spout and created havoc! I read Memoirs many years ago, and my main impression was that it was a very hard life during the 1920s and 30s. Didn’t know it had been debunked. But today, as you brought out, these young women are so accomplished! A hard-earned profession indeed.
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Loved this – a great read! Not just about the Geisha but also about your curiosity. I read Memoirs of a Geisha many years ago and although a novel, it touched my heart and gave me a slight insight into their lives. Such intrigue and mystery about their lives. Great that you could experience the festival and all it had to offer.
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Thank you so much Alma. I’m glad you enjoyed it. Despite my childhood “adventures” my curiosity has served me well I think. One of these days I must read Memoirs of a Geisha! I got part way through and had trouble dealing with the cruelty, but I imagine it’s about much more than that. I’m so fascinated by their world. There’s a documentary on Prime that I have lined up to watch.
Alison
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Wow, fantastic post! I visited Kyoto in 2011 and while we saw a few women in elaborate kimonos, we saw nothing like what you did. I’m always concerned about such performances being “touristy” but the one you saw looked fascinating.
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Thanks so much Kristina. I’m so glad I went to the performances – one in 2018 and another in 2019. All five Kyoto geisha houses put on these elaborate performances every year and they’re not remotely touristy, so if you’re ever back there in the spring go see one. I understand your reluctance though – I’ve certainly been to a few shows that were cringe worthy because they were just designed to bring in the tourists. And suddenly I’m remembering one we went to in Siem Reap I think it was where the audience was more interested in the food buffet that the dancing (which was just beautiful). It made me sad the dancers got so little respect.
Anyway I’m really glad I went to both shows in Kyoto. I fell in love with Japan 🙂
Alison
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A very aesthetically enriching and informative account. Your descriptive language makes it a very interesting read. Now I know a great deal about the Geisha and Captain Cooks Cottage too.
As always, I look forward to your (both Mam and Sir) reading of my latest work on a troubled chapter of Indisn history. Kindly share your comments on the same as it helps me each time to deliver better.
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Thank you so much brihaad. I’m glad you enjoyed it.
Alison
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Indeed now I really know a good deal about Geisha and thanks to both of you. Also about Captain Cooks cottage. I recently wrote an article of Operation Blue Star. Kindly read it and do let me know about your opinion on the piece.
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I’m so sorry brihaad, but I really just don’t have time right now.
A.
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It’s fine. Take care. God bless you.
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I also was lucky enough to attend the big local geisha show in Kanazawa, and I was absolutely spellbound!!! They are masters of their craft, and the costumes, makeup, hair, and sets made for such an incredible spectacle.
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Yes, everything you said! Both shows I saw were totally professional and of the highest quality. I’m so glad I went the first time, and also that I got the chance to share it with Don. He loved it too.
Alison
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I always appreciate the way you personalize subjects that others describe from a more distanced point of view. The story about your insatiable curiosity coupled with this – “I am a willing catch, reeled in by geishas every time.” was perfect. 🙂 Poise and presence didn’t surprise me at all, but to think about geisha gravitas is interesting, and makes perfect sense. After slowly scrolling through the photos of beautiful, meticulously crafted outfits and the descriptions of the way this lifestyle intrigues you, it was fun to come upon the last sentence – from geishas to orangutans, why not!!
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Thanks so much Lynn. My curiosity has certainly made life interesting 🙂
Gravitas seemed the right word. They take their training, and their role, very seriously, and study in great depth. It takes about 6 or 7 years to “graduate”. There’s pretty much nothing frivolous about their world, though I would hope they have fun amongst themselves and their trusted inner circle.
It’s a fun juxtaposition isn’t it – geisha to orangutangs 🙂 Makes me smile that you noticed, because I hadn’t! I’m just circling through posts about Malaysia, India, Japan, and Vancouver/the islands until I’ve caught up with all the stories.
Alison
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Sounds like a great circle! And you’re putting the stay-at-home, or at least in-country, time to good use. I heard BC’s going to Phase 3! It seems we’re in the extra precautions mode down here now, with Inslee saying everyone has to wear a mask unless you’re at home, in your car or exercising outdoors with plenty of room. I hope that helps. (Our county isn’t too bad but we keep adding cases – maybe only a few, but still, let’s go the other way).
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We are pretty much staying at home. All the still unwritten local posts are from last summer/fall. It will be good to get caught up, but still have about 15 posts (from the four places listed above) to write I think.
Things are opening up here that’s for sure, but we’re still feeling pretty cautious. We never wear masks outdoors, but always wear them indoors – which pretty much means we wear them grocery shopping lol. We’re not doing any indoor dates yet.
Hope you start to go the other way soon!
A.
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That looks like it was quite the treat. (And nice job on those low light pictures!)
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It was really amazing Dave. I’m so glad we went. Thanks so much re the photos. I confess to some post editing. I am not a purist 🙂
Alison
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WOW, wow, wow, Alison!! Your photos and descriptions are absolutely exquisite. The colors, the kimonos, the fabrics, the details…. just divine. What an experience to see all of this up close and personal. Beautiful!
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Thank you so much Kelly. It was an amazing experience. Truly extraordinary. Their kimono alone are worth the gushing, but everything about them is so breathtaking. They have this stately elegant aloofness that is somehow not arrogant even a little bit. They inhabit the earth as if there is no question about their place in it, and that is felt in every move. The fabrics are enough to make me swoon.
Alison
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“They inhabit the earth as if there is no question about their place in it…” That’s gold, Alison. Who wouldn’t want to feel that way? If everyone could feel so secure and welcomed, the world would be a different, better place. Thanks for your wisdom and keen observation.
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Yes, who wouldn’t want to feel that way!
Thanks Kelly.
A.
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Beautiful post! Like you, I’m fascinated and curious by the different, and the traditions, and the more closed and impenetrable, the more I want to know!
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Thanks so much Danila. Oh yes, I know what you mean – the more closed the more I want to know, so the geisha world is inevitably something that pulls me in.
Alison
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I love reading your site.
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Thank you so much.
Alison
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Such a beautiful post. I am curious about the geisha’s and particularly love the photo of the older couple where the man has a matching tie!!
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Thanks so much Heather. It is one of my favourite posts I think, because I’m just so damn curious about them. I was so pleased to get that shot of the older couple! So sweet to see them.
Alison
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