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Warning: naked butts and boobs ahead.
It’s Pride month!
Gay pride was not born of a need to celebrate being gay, but our right to exist without persecution. So instead of wondering why there isn’t a Straight Pride movement, be thankful you don’t need one.
Vancouver’s annual parade and festival celebrating lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender and queer people and their allies, is one of the largest in North America. A loud, colourful and joyous gaggle of cars, floats and marching units, the parade includes regulars like the Vancouver Police and Fire Departments and Dykes on Bikes, as well as every political party except the Conservatives.
From the Vancouver Pride Society: Pride is more than a parade or a festival – every year members of our communities reach out to tell us this. Pride is the first time they felt truly able to be their full selves. Pride is the day they felt unafraid in public. Pride is where they feel able to fully exist in a world that isn’t designed for them. Pride is holding hands and sharing a kiss free of fear, it is first dates and family members coming around, it is political, it is dancing till dawn, it is unabashedly taking up space.
Don has lived in Vancouver for over thirty years and me for over twenty and we’d never been to the pride parade. Last summer we finally made it. What a joyous experience. I was frequently moved to tears, in a good way, as the message of inclusiveness resounded over and over. It was as if I was watching a giant rainbow flower unfolding, and unfolding, and unfolding, in an endless celebration of life, of sharing, of inclusiveness, of joy, of unrestrained authenticity. The flower unfurled in all its uninhibited magnificence, an utterly abandoned carnival of I am here in all my glory!
Here then is my photo essay of the Vancouver Pride Parade, 2019. I hope you enjoy the ride.
Being gay is like being left handed. Some people are, most people aren’t and nobody really knows why. It’s not right or wrong, it’s just the way things are!
Love is a human experience, not a political statement.
Openness may not completely disarm prejudice, but it’s a good place to start. Jason Collins, first openly gay athlete in U.S. pro sports
The only queer people are those who don’t love anybody. Rita Mae Brown
This world would be a whole lot better if we just made an effort to be less horrible to one another. Ellen Page
Why is it that, as a culture, we are more comfortable seeing two men holding guns than holding hands? Author Ernest J. Gaines
It takes some intelligence and insight to figure out you’re gay and then a tremendous amount of balls to live it and live it proudly. Jason Bateman
I think being gay is a blessing, and it’s something I am thankful for every single day. Anderson Cooper
Somebody, your father or mine, should have told us that not many people have ever died of love. Author James Baldwin
We should indeed keep calm in the face of difference, and live our lives in a state of inclusion and wonder at the diversity of humanity. George Takei
Next post: back to Japan – a traditional tea ceremony and geisha performance.
All words and images by Alison Louise Armstrong unless otherwise noted
© Alison Louise Armstrong and Adventures in Wonderland – a pilgrimage of the heart, 2010-2020.
The guy on roller skates reminds me of someone who used to skate down the boardwalk in Mission Beach. He wore a cowboy hat and little else. Every holiday he’d be “dressed” accordingly. For example, on St. Patrick’s Day, he’d wear nothing but a shamrock. I wonder if he’s the same guy?
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I’m not familiar with either the guy or Mission Beach, but it sure sounds like it could be the same person.
Alison
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Love the joy!
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Me too!
Alison xo
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The Rita Mae Brown quote is spot on.
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Yes isn’t it. I feel sad for them 😦
Alison
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Hi, loved the photos, memories for us of Davy Street, just love that area it’s so friendly. It’s wonderful to see lots of happy people together and cheered up up so much specially as during this lockdown everything is so gloomy.
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Thanks so much Jean. It’s a great part of Vancouver that’s for sure – so vibrant and welcoming. I’m glad my post cheered you up a bit.
Alison
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Wonderful photos and a joyful celebration of love. Thanks for sharing 🙂
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Thank so much Vicki, my pleasure. I was so happy to be able to share the the joy, the love, and the fabulous creativity of Vancouver’s parade. It was a blast to attend.
Alison
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what a wonderful celebration!
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Oh Beth, it was amazing! Soooo much fun! I was blown away by the energy, and by the creativity.
Alison
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Great photos!
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Thank you so much. A photographer’s paradise – couldn’t possibly keep up!
Alison
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Fantastic photo’s 😀🏳️🌈 it looks like it was a great event. Such a shame so many of the marches won’t go ahead this year thanks to lockdown, although plenty we can still do to celebrate this month ✨
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Thanks so much Becky. Definitely a great event. Amazing energy of joy and expressive freedom. It’s just extraordinary the love and caring that rises, exponentially, when people are given the space and support they need to be true to themselves. So heartening.
Yes, of course, sadly this year’s has been cancelled – at least in person though there will be an online parade.
Alison
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Loved the color of it Alison. And the joy. Shades of Burning Man for sure. Also enjoyed the quotes you chose. Well done! –Curt
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Thanks so much Curt. The joy was palpable. It was a huge party!
There are so many quotes to choose from. It was a bit overwhelming, but some of them were obvious choices.
Alison
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We probably passed each other in the crowd! We’ve also been in Vancouver for 20 years and 2019 was the first time we went to the Pride Parade. We had such a great time. Your photos really capture the joy and fun.
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Thanks Caroline. It’s quite amazing isn’t it! I had so much fun. Given the crowd it’s not surprising we didn’t see each other.
Alison
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It’s hard to imagine something like this in Indonesia, or in many other parts of Asia, except for a few places like Taiwan. In addition to places that have traditionally been more tolerant toward the LGBT community, like Thailand and the Philippines, I read that the locals’ attitude toward them is also improving in some parts of Japan, Vietnam as well as East Timor. I completely agree with what Ellen Page said. However, for some people, they believe their hostilities toward this community is done under divine guidance. Only when people open their hearts and try to understand others who are different from them will they see that there’s nothing “divine” about all these animosities.
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I think the Ellen Page quote is just about my favourite, and yes, there’s nothing divine about hate. That strikes me as a very twisted (and painful) idea of God.
I’m glad to hear that things are improving at least in some parts of Asia.
Alison
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Such powerful messages woven between your incredible portraits, Alison. Thank you for this. We needed this today! And always.
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Thanks so much Kelly. I’m so glad it brightened your day. It was so much fun! The love and joy was truly palpable.
Alison
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Thank you for the delightful rainbow. 🌈💕
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My pleasure Julie. What a joyous time it was.
Alison
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The guts, the glory and the creativity! Truly amazing!
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Yes! All of that. And fun! Some of the outfits were just extraordinary – many more that I haven’t shared because I wasn’t fast enough with the camera.
I’m so glad we went.
Alison
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Alison – You’ve been producing quite a few posts with glorious color lately! Fun and fabulous :))))
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Thanks Susan. I’m a bit of a magpie with colour. If it’s brightly coloured I instantly want to “collect” it in my camera. And this was the perfect event for me 🙂
Alison
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I’ve been to quite a few prides in different cities, but the Vancouver one looks incredible! What a colorful, crazy, joyous event. I usually get a bit teary too – this is the world I want to live in!
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The Vancouver parade is amazing! I was blown away by the enormity of it, and the creativity, and yes, the cheer joy of it. What you see here is only a tiny portion of it – just the best of what I was able to capture. Also I didn’t stay until the end – by about 3/4 way through I felt full. There were so many extraordinary costumes, and about 150 groups. For me too – this is the world I want to live in – where our differences are honoured and celebrated.
Alison
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I’ve seen (parts) of the Pride parade in Chicago and, although living in London, I’ve never been to the one here – mainly because I should set out today to arrive there in time!
Anyway, thanks for the great photo-essay, the colours, the parade of ass-less chaps and for getting us acquainted with Dykes on Bikes. Brilliant name. I’m a straight, white male with no sense of colours, fashion or style but I really enjoyed it!
Somebody, a few years ago, organised an anti-Gay Pride in Rome, they called it “family day”. In all honesty, of a list of things we didn’t need, that was one: it’s not as if you can be “infected” with gayness, for God’s sake!
Here’s to hoping we can go back watching parades soon. And happy ones such as this one.
Fabrizio
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Thanks Fabrizio. Celebrating diversity apparently doesn’t require a sense of colour, fashion or style 🙂 I’m glad you enjoyed it. It was sooo much fun. I could hardly believe the array of brilliant things that kept coming by – apart from all the guys dressed in their outrageous costumes there were decorated fire trucks and police cars, a Scottish band, and many other groups, including yes Dykes on Bikes (one of whom is a good friend).
An anti-Gay Pride ?!!! Kinda sad really, and yes definitely on the list of things we don’t need.
Sadly there will be no parades or festivals in Vancouver this year. It will be a very different summer. But one day no doubt things will get going again.
Alison
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Wow what a fun colorful representation of a beautiful parade! Love the carnival themed costumes!
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Thanks so much. It was such a joyous event. I can’t believe it took us so long to finally get to it! Sadly it has been cancelled this year – at least in person, but no doubt will return when the virus has been contained.
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Glorious, Alison! The joy here is the joy I think we all feel when given the space to be who we truly are. It is so unfortunate that this is not a universal right-blessing-gift that we bestow upon and receive from one another. The smiling faces are a joy to behold, and as always, you’ve captured them beautifully!
Michael
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Thanks so much Michael. It was really a pleasure to watch and capture the parade. I agree, the joy comes from a complete sense of freedom to be authentic, something I think many of these people really only get to do on this one day a year. Though I must say Vancouver’s pretty tolerant and inclusive.
Alison
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Pride is my favorite parade of the year. It’s the only one I know where everyone just seems happy and colorful and celebrates love. Great photos and experience. Thanks for sharing!
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Thanks so much Heather, my pleasure. I had so much fun at the parade. I don’t know why it took us so long to get to it! And sadly it’s cancelled this year of course. All Vancouver’s summer festivals are cancelled 😦 but it is for the best.
Alison
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I have the best photo from NY pride…I’m in a side street…these guys are all decked out and everyone is looking off to the main street. I look, instead, right in front of me and notice one of the guys isn’t wearing anything over his butt. And he had a nice butt. So that was my photo. 🤣 Just the most wonderful day of the year.
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What a great moment! And no doubt a great photo 🙂
I loved it when the roller skating guy went by. Nice butt, and cute pink flowers. 🙂
A.
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Wow! I’ve been in Key West during Pride Week and they pale in comparison. Great photos Alison.
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Thanks so much Ron. It was a really amazing parade, and so much fun to photograph.
Alison
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Just the happy, colorful, and uplifting post I needed today! And your photography is stunning, of course – it’s as if I was right there with you. Here’s hoping Pride celebrations will be back in all their fabulous glory next year 🙂
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Thank you so much. That’s a great compliment. It was really wonderful to be there – so enlivening and joyful. I had tears in my eyes that the police would participate. I don’t know what it’s like for LGBTQ+ people in Vancouver vis a vis the police in ordinary life, but just the fact that they would have a contingent in the parade says something.
Yes, hoping it will be back next year. Such uncertain times we live in.
Alison
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Love your blog ✨
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Thank you so much! Your own blog is pretty impressive too!
Alison
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Wow, what incredible photos! Such a beautiful celebration of love. I’m sad that there will be no gay pride parade here in Lisbon this year, but reading your post is almost like being there in person.
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Thank you so much Wendy. It was so much fun being there, the atmosphere was electric. Everyone was so happy!
We’ll both have to make do with this. Sadly, but inevitably there’ll be no pride parade here in Vancouver either, or anything much else. We live in changing times that’s for sure.
Alison
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Fabulous Pride portraits, Alison. You have captured the fun spirit of the day. SF Pride parade was one of my favorite days. Such vibrant joy! Hopefully we will be able to celebrate next year. 🌈
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Thanks so much Jane. It was a fabulous day. Happiness for miles! I’m so glad we went.
Hopefully next year. It’s been cancelled here too this year of course.
Alison
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Astounding sights and ingenuity, Alison. I marvel at the lack of inhibitions, but applaud the acceptance and joy in life. 🙂 🙂
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Astounding is the word Jo. I was just blown away by it all, by the lack of inhibitions on the one day they can truly get away with that, by the creativity, and especially by the joy. It felt great to be there.
Alison
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Great photos of some incredibly colorful scenes…similar to Seattle’s parade, and so many others, I imagine. The parades have really evolved over the years – back in nY in the early days it wasn’t so colorful. It’s too bad so many of these events will be canceled this year, the world will miss them! Well, there’s always next year. 🙂
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Thanks Lynn. It was a lot of fun to be there. I think Vancouver’s parade also has evolved over the years to become this huge colourful family affair.
Yeah, too bad everything’s cancelled. Hopefully next year!
Alison
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