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14 May 2018. I take the train past the stop for Arashiyama and travel on to Kameoka. I’d read that there is a two-hour boat ride down the Hozugawa River to Arashiyama and it seems like a sweet way to begin the day. Alas, there had been too much rain the day before. The river is a wild animal, flowing swift and deep, and waiting to attack at any moment. No boats are running. Disappointed I walk back to the train station and journey backwards to Arashiyama.
If you Google top sights to visit in Kyoto, Arashiyama is always there on the list. It’s a district on the western outskirts of the city, and one article rightly describes it as touristy. I suppose it’s one of the places to visit if you’re short of time in Kyoto, as I was, and want to check off the main sights. With this enticing introduction I share my day there. Hopefully I’ve encouraged you enough to continue reading.
I have a kind of list for Arashiyama – a temple, a private garden, the ever-so-famous and hyped bamboo grove, the equally famous and hyped Togetsukyo Bridge, the less-well-known kimono forest, and of course the monkey park.
I begin with Tenryū-ji Temple, a World Heritage Site that was initially a villa built in 1305. In a civil war Shogun Ashikaga Takauji had bested Emperor Go-Daigo, thus becoming the ruler of Japan. Go-Daigo died, and soon after Ashikaga dreamed of a dragon arising from the river. He concluded that Go-Daigo’s spirit was not resting peacefully so he converted the villa (where Go-Daigo had been raised) into a Zen temple to mollify the Emperor’s spirit. Having been brave enough to fight and win a war he was apparently afraid of ghosts. Oh the frailty of the human spirit.
The temple was lost to fires and wars eight times over the years. Most of the current buildings date from the 1800’s. Nevertheless the strolling pond garden survived the centuries in its original design. The complex consists of several buildings, all exemplary examples of Japanese calm minimalism.
The shrine to Emperor Go-Daigo:
Tenryū-ji is a serene space, only I’m not feeling serene, so sadly it doesn’t penetrate, although I appreciate its beauty. I am, however, quite tickled by this,
and it makes me smile despite the horrific story behind it. It’s one of the two main paintings in the building. The other, understandably, is of a dragon. The face belongs to Bodhidharma, known in Japan as Daruma, the Indian monk credited with being the founder of Zen Buddhism. Apparently he cut off his eyelids so he wouldn’t fall asleep during meditation. It speaks to me of desperation and/or an incomprehensibly fierce devotion to his path. I guess we all do what we have to do. The painting still makes me smile.
I roam the exquisite garden, allowing the serenity to seep in a little. In the tradition of Japanese gardens every turn brings another vista of perfectly calculated beauty, right down to the posing heron.
And on the street outside: a monk going about his business completes the picture of Zen Buddhism in Japan.
Although I appreciate the sparse beauty of Japanese Buddhist temples I find them very reserved, almost stand-offish. It makes me welcome all the more the approachable flavour of the Buddhist temples of South East Asia where Don and I would just wander in and plop down on the floor to meditate for as long as we wanted. I never felt this was possible in Japan unless we were “accredited” members of the congregation. Having said that, there was absolutely nothing to stop me sitting in the main hall of Tenryū-ji and meditating except for my mood. Full disclosure: I was more concerned with getting good photos than simply being present and enjoying where I was. A lesson to myself that I seem to have to learn over and over.
Moving on I walk to the nearby bamboo forest. It really is very beautiful, albeit crowded with tourists like me.
The only time to see this wonderful space unoccupied is to get there very early in the morning. The bamboo is remarkable, reaching so high that I must crane my neck to see the tops.
The sixteen square kilometre forest was created as part of a park designed by Muso Soseki, the same priest who designed the garden at Tenryū-ji Temple. A natural bamboo forest is a rare and lovely thing. When the poles sway in a gentle wind the rustling leaves high up in the trees sing a song of welcome, but honestly the thing that interests me the most on the short path through the forest is this:
I am guessing she is a model, or a performer of some kind. She clearly has an entourage with her. Perhaps they have been doing a photo shoot. She is dressed as a very high-end prostitute from Japan’s Edo era. Courtesans such as this, known as Oiran in Tokyo and Tayuu in Kyoto, were able to choose their clients. Potential clients would have to woo her, visiting her house many times and bringing expensive gifts, and doing all they could to impress and entertain her until eventually (hopefully) she says yes.
From the bamboo forest it is a short walk to the Okochi Sanso Villa and garden. Popular silent-film actor Okochi Denjiro (1896-1962) created the garden over a thirty-year period. I follow the carefully signed track through the garden past the villa,
the diminutive Jibutsu-do Shrine,
past viewpoints,
along cobblestone paths and stairs, past broad expanses of lawn, past cherry and maple and pine trees, past areas of rich green moss, under wooden arches, past stone lanterns, and through forests.
It’s a gorgeous garden, and despite the large numbers of tourists in Arashiyama few of them have come here. I have the place almost to myself. Somehow I manage to miss that my entrance fee covers matcha tea and a sweet at the teahouse. I suppose I’m too busy wanting to get to the next thing.
The next thing is something I’ve been looking forward to, having seen pictures of it during my research for Japan. It’s the kimono forest at Keifuku Randen Tram Station. I’m disappointed because it doesn’t live up to my expectations. Nothing can kill your enjoyment of a place more effectively than unmet expectations. I know this, but it seems to be another lesson I have to learn over and over. Man oh man there is just no pleasing me this day.
Either the colours of the kimono fabric have faded significantly over the six years the kimono forest has existed or the colours in the photos I’ve seen online have been seriously over saturated. I suspect a bit of both. More disclosure: the photos below are also somewhat oversaturated, but they look prettier that way. My photo, my vision, but if you go to see it know that the colours are not nearly so bright.
The kimono forest is, however, quite wonderful, even with faded colours. It is an art installation by Yasumichi Morita consisting of 600 clear acrylic cylinders, each two metres high and encasing kimono fabric. They are scattered in groups all over the station grounds.
Following the path down the kimono lane
I come to a small pond called Ryu no Atago.
The pond is situated at the core energy point of Randen Station. The sign says:
Pond of Dragon
Wishes are granted if the dragon that
Landed in Arashiyama is prayed to.
If you immerse your hands in the water
Your heart will be filled with peace and you will be lead to happiness.
Boy do I ever need this. I hopefully immerse my hands, waiting for peace and happiness to strike. They don’t. Well at least not immediately, but anyway the dragon globe and pond is a delightful surprise at the end of the kimono path.
Making my way back to the street I turn left and walk to the river
It’s the Katsura River, a continuation of the Hozu River and the Oi River, and known as the Hozu in Arashiyama, and the Katsura from then on. Or something like that. I never quite figure it out. I also never figure out the hype around the Togetsukyo Bridge. The bridge is an iconic landmark of Arashiyama. It’s a bridge. Across a river. On the far side of the bridge the river has a lovely side channel where you can rent pleasure boats.
and beyond that a path up to the Iwatayama Monkey Park.
I hadn’t realised that there would be a long hike up to the monkey park. It doesn’t matter. It’s a forty-minute steep uphill hike and just what I need. There is nothing like some serious aerobic exercise to help you feel better. And at the top there are spectacular views of Kyoto, and monkeys! Over a hundred Japanese macaques roam freely around the central buildings and forecourt, and through the surrounding forest.
They are the same species as the famous Japanese snow monkeys that in winter soak in the hot springs way north of Kyoto.
I watch them grooming each other, chasing around after each other, mothers caring for young ones, and many rushing to the open area in front of the buildings when an attendant comes to feed them.
I follow some of them into the forested area, and watch a baby stumbling over the rough ground, it’s new legs not yet strong enough for the rough terrain. A couple of steps and fall down. A couple more wobbly steps and down again. The mother is close by but leaves it be.
I see another tiny one putting on the same endearing display, and a couple of teenagers getting aggravated with each other.
Although Iwatayama Monkey Park is a commercial enterprise there is great freedom to observe the monkeys as they run playing and fighting or lazing around in the shade grooming each other. It is as natural a setting as possible without being entirely in the wilderness. I’ve seen monkeys in true wilderness on a kayaking trip in Ha Long Bay, Vietnam. There was something so entirely heart-stopping about that experience – watching an entire troop leap from tree to tree. And I’ve seen monkeys in urban India. Iwatayama is about half way between the two.
It’s a brilliant sunny spring day, the sky is a warm blue canopy, and a gorgeous view of Kyoto and the mountains beyond is right in front of me. I guess life’s not so bad after all.
Post script: months later, writing this post and talking to Don about it I realise what my problem was. Simple really. I was lonely. I had no one to share the day with. I’ve so rarely been lonely that I couldn’t identify what was wrong at the time. I didn’t like travelling without Don. Some days were harder than others, but I just kept putting one foot in front of the other because what else was I to do? Even so I still wouldn’t put Arashiyama near the top of a list of things to do and see in Kyoto unless you have a particular interest in any of the sights there. From Youtube videos I would recommend the open-boat trip through white water from Kameoka to Arashiyama which Don and I plan to do when we’re in Kyoto this coming March.
Next post: A day trip to Nikko and the very beautiful Toshogu Shrine.
All words and images by Alison Louise Armstrong unless otherwise noted
© Alison Louise Armstrong and Adventures in Wonderland – a pilgrimage of the heart, 2010-2019.
When we went to Arashiyama, after walking past the bamboo grove, we eventually ended up at Arashiyama Park (Kameyama-koen). It was beautiful and serene. There’s not a lot of tourists around and you can enjoy sitting down watching the river or relaxing. There’s also viewpoints with amazing views. But I agree, I think Arashiyama is best spent with someone. I’m hoping you enjoy your visit with Don this year. 🙂
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Thanks Kat. I’m looking forward to returning with Don, and having more time there. I saw people down by the river. The park looks lovely. Perhaps we’ll go hang out there when we’re there in March. Our main reason for going back is to get the open-boat ride from Kameoka to Arashiyama, which looks amazing, then after that it’s up to Don what we do since I’ve seen all the main things there to see.
Alison
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Alison this is an interesting post because we all have times when we have to deal with expectations that do not match reality. And yet, as your post illustrates, there is always some joy to be found, somewhere.
Bamboo forests are always spectacular. Because we worked with bamboo in Nicaragua building eco low cost houses for indigenous populations/victims of hurrcanes…. We have been in many wild bamboo forests and these photos brought back memories of many a time, both in Nicaragua, Colombia and Cuba, of immersion in bamboo magic.
I think monkeys are such fascinating animals to watch as they go about their ways. So human like. You made me miss our little home in Sri Lanka where we see monkeys jumping from branch to branch while we shower or use the toilet haha, or just lying on our bed…. Currently in India for over a month, while our home is occupied by home exchangers and/or air bnb guests.
And finally, I DO relate to your loneliness and how that impacts everything. I don’t like traveling without Ben. I just miss sharing things with him. When you have a travel partner as we are so fortunate to have, that enjoys the same things and is on the same wave length it is just not the same to not share the joys with that person.
Peta
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I’ve been caught out before with having expectations that weren’t met, and promise myself I’ll not do it again, and then I forget, lol and then it happens again. Oh well, it’s all part of travelling I suppose.
I can hardly even imagine how amazing it must be to be in a completely wild bamboo forest. I saw them in China – bamboo so high and thick I hardly recognized it as bamboo – but only saw it from a boat. On the trail up behind Fushimi Inari Shrine there’s a bamboo forest that is never mentioned. Don and I plan on hiking that path when we’re there in March – maybe we’ll stray off the trail a bit at that point – it would be lovely to be surrounded by bamboo forest and feel that energy.
It must be lovely living with the monkeys in Sri Lanka though Don wouldn’t think so – he’s not a fan since one jumped on his back in the Monkey Forest in Ubud. We’ll be in Rishikesh for a month so no doubt he’ll not be able to avoid them. We’ve found a place with a really lovely garden so I’m expecting monkeys.
Yeah, it’s just not the same travelling without Don, and you’re right – it did impact everything, and I didn’t really realize how much until I was back home again. I’m so looking forward to this next trip Paris, Rishikesh, Kyoto – and having him there to share it with.
Alison
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As I was reading this post I kept thinking, she is lonely and missing Don. So I wasn’t surprised by the last paragraph. So pleased you are both returning in March. I love the look of the kimono forest as I love fabric. Watching the monkeys would be a fun thing to do as well.
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Oh Darlene you got it in one! I’ve so rarely been lonely that I didn’t recognize the problem, and also of course I didn’t feel it every day. Some days on the Japan/China trip were so amazing I had no space to be lonely, or not much anyway.
I was definitely expecting much brighter colours in the kimono forest – they’re really quite pastel so don’t have the impact I was expecting – but having said that it is a lovely and unique installation.
I’ve seen monkeys in so many places now, but still the best moment was in Ha Long Bay, and in the Amazon. They’re always fun to watch.
Alison
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Alison – it will be interesting to read your post on your next visit to Kyoto, sort of a with/without Don comparison. We are all affected by our moods and our health at points along the road, and it’s probably impossible to separate out how you feel and what there is to experience. I had to laugh, though, at your color-saturating improvement on the kimonos – THAT disappointment, you couldn’t let stand 🙂 Cheers – Susan
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Chuckle, you’re right – I had to fix the kimonos! They’re actually very pastel so don’t have as much impact. Be warned should you ever decide to go see them 🙂
I agree it’s impossible to separate how you feel and your experience of a place. The whole 7 weeks of the Japan/China trip I never quite settled, except for occasionally, because Don was not with me. I felt off kilter. I like to think I’ll do better next time. I don’t know that I will, but at least I’ll know what to expect.
Very much looking forward to being back in Kyoto with Don, and with lots of time instead of feeling rushed.
Alison
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Pastel???? I like your reality soooo much better 🙂
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Expectations are the most annoying things! I could feel your ‘sadness’ somehow in your words, that you were off kilter is obvious, because you’re normally so positive. You kept pushing yourself because you were alone and as you say ‘what else was there to do’. I am so glad you’re able to return with Don.
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Oh I seem to have to learn the expectations thing over and over. I see pictures on the net, and have all these ideas about the beauty I’m going to see or the great photos I’ll get, and then something else entirely happens. It would be fine if I could remember in the moment – on yeah, this is not what I was hoping for, but instead of getting frustrated about it, I’ll just stop and really look at what *is* here. I’m reminding myself for Paris coming up in a bit over a week – to let it be whatever it’s going to be instead of hoping for some image already I have in my mind lol. Because for sure it won’t be that!
Don and I were both surprised that being without each other would be so difficult. The whole trip I never really did settle. There was so much that was foreign, and perhaps the most foreign of all was being without Don. I think it will be easier next time since at least I’ll know what to expect.
Alison
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Are you going to Paris together or alone? The expectation thing is hard. I have it too. Especially with regards to photography – wanting to get ‘the shot’. I was very frustrated in Kyoto. I guess this lesson is so hard to learn because it’s so worthwhile – it needs some effort to make it stick. One day we will get there!
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I’ll be with Don. We’ll have 5 days in Paris, a month in Rishikesh and 2 weeks in Kyoto. Leaving Feb 4th. Getting excited!
Yeah that wanting to get “the shot” can be really consuming. I hope I’m starting to get some kind of balance.
A.
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That sounds fantastic. What a great trip!
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I always love the honesty in your writing, Alison. Not every travel day can be a winner, regardless of what’s on the itinerary. Great that you kept going and eventually realized that loneliness was at play. I’ve had a similar run-in with unhappiness — didn’t recognize it until I really, really thought about it. Travel puts us face-to-face with so many factors beyond our control that push buttons we don’t even know we have — both good and bad. Wonderful post, thoughts and words — especially this: “The river is a wild animal…” How perfectly descriptive for us readers! xo, K.
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Thanks so much Kelly. What you say about travel is so right. It seems to push us to confront issues we didn’t even know were there. I hope you’ve turned the unhappiness around (?) and found a way through. 😦
Alison xo
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That pond is uncanny in its resemblance with certain Japanese cartoons… Dragon Ball above all! (I’m dating myself as a teenager in the late 1990s here!)
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Chuckle. I have no idea what you’re referring to, but glad you enjoyed it. Either way I loved coming across that pond and dragon ball.
In the late 90’s I was in my late 40’s and still trying to figure out how to be an adult. Slow learner 🙂
Alison
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Empathies, I felt that way every time I visited places without my husband because he was busy working while I roamed. So I have made a huge list that includes returning to those cities and villages with him.
Your photographs are work of art, Alison. I can imagine that they would not have come by if you were not obsessed with grabbing the right moment and subject. There is always that dilemma when we are travelling. Are we too invested in our photos that we miss the moment? But I am convinced that you captured it all so beautifully for your readers. The simians would grin mightily at their generous inclusion in the post. They have such interesting personalities. 😉
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I too have a list of places I’d like to return to with Don. Fortunately we’re going to Kyoto in March so I can cross that one off the list!
Thank you so much DDG for your lovely compliment. I must admit I find photography can be a huge benefit, and a huge distraction. It makes me really look, at the big picture, at the details, at the same scene from up high and down low, and try different angles and settings. I’m always looking. At the same time sometimes I get so caught up in taking the shot that I forget to just be where I am and take it in. So it’s always about finding a balance. Mostly I do okay with it. I’m trying to learn to let the photographs come to me instead of chasing after pre-conceived ideas of the shot I’d like to get.
I always enjoy watching the monkeys – they’re so funny, and human! We’ll be in Rishikesh for a month in Feb/March so I’m sure I’ll see plenty there.
Alison
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I have not been to Rishikesh yet but the fame of its langurs is far reaching. I am sure you will be quite entertained by their antics. On evenings when I used to go for tea with my colleagues to a tea stall behind my office, I used to feed a langur called Kundan. He was officially an employee of the government of India. His job was to rid the Parliament and the area around us of monkeys. And his pleasure was to be rewarded with cream cones though I doubt it did him any good.
It is perfect that you get to go back with Don to Kyoto, and be the expert guide, taking him around to your favourite places. Seeing it together will add the warmth to Kyoto.
‘I’m trying to learn to let the photographs come to me instead of chasing after pre-conceived ideas of the shot I’d like to get.’ Just the kind of thing everyone needs to remember on their travels. Have a good weekend!
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Oh I’m so excited to hear there are langurs in Rishikesh. I think they are so elegant. We saw quite a few of them when we were in Tiruvannamalai.
Wishing you a good weekend too DDG.
A.
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When we visited Arashiyama last March, we felt completely at peace in Tenryū-ji Temple. It was the warmest day of our trip, the sun was shining and we were incredibly thankful for the heat and the blue skies. There were lots of tourists, but everyone was so quiet and gentle, it didn’t feel at all crowded. I sat for a long time looking at the lake, the trees, the pathways and little shrubs, thinking it seemed like they had all been there forever, which made me feel a part of it even more. The bamboo forest was a different story! It was probably the most crowded and touristy I’d felt in Japan, but because we went to Tenryū-ji first, I still felt very Zen there, which created a lovely bubble so I didn’t feel jostled. I’m sorry you felt so lonely! It’s easier to enjoy quiet places with the people you love, for sure. I hope you and Don have a fantastic trip this year. Looking forward to reading all about it!
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Thank you so much Michela. I’m starting to get excited about our trip, it’s coming up quickly. And this time I won’t be lonely!
It sounds as if you had a beautiful time at Tenryū-ji. The option was there for me had I been in the right head space. I feel as if I’ve learnt quite a lot from this trip about slowing down. We have 5 days in Paris coming up and almost no agenda. I look forward to that. Also I’m looking forward to wandering into the bamboo forest (I seem to remember it’s not fenced off) up the hill behind Fushimi Inari in Kyoto – no crowds there as not that many people climb all the way up behind the shrine.
Sorry I took so long to reply. Sometimes WP goes weird – I found your comment in the spam file!
Alison
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Touristy or not – it is awesome. Thanks for your wonderful impressions in text and photos. Carsten
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Thanks so much Carsten, glad you enjoyed it. No doubt I’d have found it more awesome if Don had been with me lol.
Alison
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That is for sure, Alison. I hope you can do your next journey together again. 🙂
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Oh yes, our next trip we’re doing together.
A.
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quite the beauty!
no problem
man 🙂
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Yes, in retrospect
no problem.
And yes, much beauty
that didn’t entirely
escape me
even though
no Don.
Alison xo
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There is no comparison between solitude and loneliness and while I was reading this post, it was so evident that you were missing sharing the experience with Don. Knowing that you can do things on your own is reassuring but not much can match the shared glances between long-time partners that conveys unspoken words and thoughts. I’m so glad that you’ll be returning with Don to some of the same places and have no doubt that the second time around will be a much richer adventure! Anita
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I’m so looking forward to being in Kyoto with Don in March. I have a feeling it will be a whole different experience. As I read your words about shared glances, I also thought of that simple gesture of reaching out a hand and knowing there’s someone there to take it, with an ease and familiarity that comes from years of practice. And love. We are so lucky to have this, and travelling without Don made me value it all the more.
Alison
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I was all set to wax on about the two vertical themes here – the bamboo and the kimono path – both of which appealed greatly to my aesthetic sense, but then I got to the monkeys! I’m a sucker for furry creatures, so even though they have none of the refined beauty of the other sights that day, they made me smile!
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The monkeys also made me smile. They always do. The bamboo forest is very beautiful, but again expectations! I was expecting to be able to walk through it, not be confined to a crowded path. There is a bamboo grove up behind Fushimi Inari Shrine that I think I’ll be able to wander into when I’m back there with Don. But I’m not going to expect anything! Chuckle.
I like the way you honed in on the vertical theme. Both places appealed to my aesthetic, but no doubt would have more if I’d not had such different expectations.
Answering all these comments has been really helpful for me to be very aware of expectations (whether or not I have them, what they are, etc) for our upcoming trip. I hope it means I can do better.
Alison
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I struggle mightily with expectations (when they go the wrong way), but I love it when the opposite occurs – when I expect something bad or even so-so and I get blown away. I have not learned my lesson very well, but I do TRY to keep those overly rosy predictions in check. Going back is sometimes the hardest test, but this time you will be seeing through a fresh pair of eyes, too. Sending lots of good wishes for a fantastic trip to all your upcoming locales!
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Thanks Lexie. Starting to get excited.
A.
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The monkeys win, here Alison. 🙂 Lots of great subjects before there, however. The bamboo forest was a favorite. And the guy without eyebrows made me smile as well. –Curt
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Oh the monkeys *always* win! They’re so entertaining. I’m looking forward to actually walking in a bamboo forest, not just on a path next to it. Think I’ll be able to on our next trip to Kyoto. It was eyelids Curt! Eyelids. So horrific. But yeah, the painting makes me smile 🙂
Alison
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When I was in Kyoto I didn’t go to Arashiyama because I thought people go there only to take photos of the bamboo forest. But Tenryu-ji is enough reason for me to not miss this part of Kyoto should I return one day. The architecture looks lovely and quintessentially Japanese, and look at that raked gravel in front of the gate! So beautiful. Hope the next time you’re in Kyoto (this time with Don!) you’ll have a much nicer experience, Alison.
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Thanks Bama. I expect it will be much better with Don, and also because we’ll be there for 2 weeks so it won’t feel so rushed.
Tenryū-ji is definitely worth a visit – especially if you’re not already templed-out in Kyoto – there are so many! Over 2000 temples and shrines in Kyoto I believe! But I must admit that from what I’ve seen Tenryū-ji is one of the better ones.
Alison
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Very beautiful post, Alison. Thank you.
Glancing through the comments, I saw that you mention that you and Don will be in Rishikesh in February/March. I don’t know if you are aware of this, but Mooji will be in Rishikesh from Feb 13 to March 10. Could be you deliberately chose to be there at the same time? 🙂
Best of luck to you and Don on your new travels.
Tanya
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Thanks so much Tanya. Chuckle, of course we’re going to Rishikesh for Mooji! But also looking forward to a little exploration of the area – Haridwar, some tiger stalking in a nearby national park, etc – leaving Feb 4 for 5 days in Paris first – getting excited!
Alison
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Wow! Say hello to Mooji from me! That’s a joke, I’ve seen him multiple times during my Portugal visits, but I’ve never talked with him. I did get a wonderful long hug from him once, though, as I happened to stand in just the right spot, and I totally cherish that moment.
Have a wonderful time …… and, of course, you’ll be coming back all enlightened, with big halos over your heads, right? Mooji expects that of us, you know! 🙂
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All enlightened. Oh yes of course! 🙂
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p.s. About Kyoto: Maybe you’ve already been there and there’s a post about it coming still , but if you haven’t, I highly recommend visiting the Ryoanji Temple and garden when you return in March. It’s the famous garden with the 15 rocks placed strategically in a sea of sand. We were there many years ago, it was one of the highlights of our brief visit. It is a very sacred place of great beauty and tranquility.
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Chuckle, I’ve already written/published 4 posts about Kyoto – just scroll down the list of recent posts on the right. Didn’t get to Ryoanji but will keep it in mind for when we’re back there.
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I know about your posts, I read all of them. But do check out the Ryoanji rock garden if you get a chance — you can google it first — it really is one of a kind, and very famous. It exudes such stillness, that everybody who comes near is drawn into its orbit and becomes still as well.
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Thanks for the heads up – I’ll put it on the list. And a huge thank you for reading all my posts. It is so appreciated. xo
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Now I’m trying to not get envious!
Rishikesh (I love Rishikesh, but only the east side of it where there is hardly any car traffic) ….. Kyoto …….. brings back so many memories! If only I had a magic carpet to fly me there in an instant!
Best to both of you.
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Thanks so much Rahul, I’m glad you enjoyed it. It seems you’ve visited some interesting places yourself!
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Sometimes I beat myself up for being “behind” in my posts, but as your beautiful post shows, looking back at an experience yields wonderful insights and learnings. I’m happy for you that you’ll be back in Japan with Don this time.
Although you might have missed out on being in the moment, your efforts to get good photos sure paid off. They are all exquisite, especially the bamboo forest (the monkey shots make me smile).
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Thanks so much Caroline. I do love photography, but there are definitely times I need to find more of a balance between getting “the shot” and simply being with and experiencing what’s in front of me.
I’m soooo far behind on the blog. I have 2 more posts on Japan to come and then I still want to write about 4 weeks in China. Eighteen days in Japan produced 16 posts. God knows how many will come from 4 weeks in China! (Plus the 7 articles I’ve written for Intrepid Travel.) And we’re setting off again in a week. Arrrrrgh! I’ll never catch up. Might as well surrender to that lol.
Alison
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Alison, you produce such high quality posts and articles; this stuff takes time. And now you’re off on another adventure. What a lovely dilemma! I know what you mean though, it’s nice to get caught up at some point!
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Loved reading your post… I so often do the same as you, thinking about the photographs and the story rather than immersing myself in the moment. But you managed to pack quite a few experiences in that one day. That must have been exhausting. It would indeed have been wonderful to break up that day enjoying a coffee (or tea) and a chat with a companion. I must admit that my autumn travels when in the company of my friend were definitely the more enjoyable ones. But sometimes, I crave solitude too. So for me, solo travel has its place too..
Looking forward to the next installment, and of course, eventually the tales about your second taste of Japan with Don.
Lieve
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Thanks Lieve. It was a pretty exhausting day. And I even went on to see the Golden Temple afterwards. I do think I’ll be better travelling solo should I do it again now I know what to expect. I realize for me it’s really important to get present and to take time to just be, and absorb where I am, and I didn’t do nearly enough of that. And although I missed Don so much I did appreciate the freedom that comes with travelling solo.
Alison
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As always, wonderful photos that makes me want to visit Japan even more…
…excellent!
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Thanks so much rabirius. Japan is amazing. I totally fell in love with it, and I’m so glad to be going back in March.
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Interesting kimono forest.
Hope the spring is lovely in Japan for you and Don.
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Thanks Jean. I’m looking forward to being in Japan in the early spring. I’m fairly sure we’ll see some plum blossoms, and maybe some cherry blossoms.
I enjoyed the kimono forest – it’s a very unique installation, but for sure the fabric has faded *a lot* since it was created 5 years ago.
Alison
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“Full disclosure: I was more concerned with getting good photos than simply being present and enjoying where I was.” – ah, the eternal struggle of a travel blogger!
Alison, I think as travel bloggers, there’s an underlying pressure to like or enjoy everything when we go abroad, but the truth is that we all have our “off” days on occasion. I’ve always enjoyed having a travel companion and when I did a solo weekend trip a number of years ago I quickly got bored. Not because there weren’t things to do but because I didn’t like eating alone and not being able to share the experience with someone else. I have no doubt that you will enjoy Arashiyama much more with Don by your side.
As for Togetsukyo Bridge, I suspect that it looked less impressive because you went at “green season”. I hear Arashiyama (and the area around the bridge) is at its most spectacular at spring and fall, when the surrounding slopes are more colorful and there are nighttime illuminations. If you and Don happen to be in Kyoto from the 26th onward, which is when the cherry blossoms are forecast to bloom, it might be worth going back for that and the boat ride.
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There were times I didn’t like eating alone, but I’m not so much of a foodie as you are so I often got some kind of takeaway and ate back in my hostel room, but I agree, having someone to share the experience with can make a huge difference, especially when having Don there was pretty much all I was used to. Travelling without him was shocking in a way that I hadn’t anticipated .
I’m still looking for the balance with photography. It comes and goes. My self talk for this up-coming trip is to let the photos come to me instead of going after them. We’ll see how I do. 🙂
Alas we leave Japan March 26th. Perhaps the cherry blossoms will come a little early this year. We will probably be there for the plum blossoms.
There’s a train ride you can do near Arashiyama that takes you past cherry blossoms, and I’m really looking forward to doing the boat trip down the river – from videos it looks really spectacular.
And maybe this time I’ll see Togetsukyo Bridge through different eyes.
Alison
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Hi Alison, What a pleasure to read and view your wonderful photos. Having just been here a couple of months ago, it was fun to read your take on it. Definitely touristy but very enjoyable to see. Your monkey shots are terrific– we did not do that. 🙂 Thanks for a great post.
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Thanks so much Jane, and you’re welcome. I’ll be back there with Don in March – I’m sure I’ll find Arashiyama much more to my liking then :), but yes it is touristy. The monkeys were fun for sure.
Alison
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I think I commented in my head days ago, and forgot to write it down….you’ve done it again, such a well-written and beautifully illustrated piece. I always am captivated by your “confessions” and inner feelings and reactions. Here, the discomfort with the monastery, which I can easily understand, the bit of scolding to yourself, the fascination with that coterie in the bamboo forest…and the postscript. I go back and forth about that because there’s nothing like sharing experiences with someone you’re comfortable with, but travel alone is vivid, and makes you stronger.
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Thank you so much Lynn. I put off writing this post because it was not a happy day until I finally realized I just had to share the truth interwoven with what I saw. I can imagine being really soothed by the temple if I was simply open to it. I love getting to places like that when there are few people there – then I can tune into the energy and am frequently undone by it. But the crowds of tourists and my focus on getting the right photos completely got in the way. Oh well. It is what it is.
I was so excited to see that woman in the bamboo forest! The exotic gets me every time. It was far more interesting than fenced off bamboo and a crowd of tourists 🙂
I do agree travelling alone makes you stronger, and there’s a freedom to it that I really appreciated. After this first experience of it I expect to do better next time.
Alison
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Undone by it – I like that. And the exotic gets me every time, yes, that too. And what adventures are you planning next?
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We’re (both of us) are leaving Monday for Paris for 5 days, Rishikesh for a month to sit with one of our fave spiritual teachers, and then 2 weeks in/around Kyoto so Don can get to experience some of Japan, and I can experience it without feeling so rushed.
A.
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I understand when you say “stand off (ish) I know it was me as outsider but there is that feeling….your photography is beautiful I feel like green…very much…have a wonderful day…love to revisit your posts as I look at the snow and grey…hugs hedtb☺️🤓
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Thank you so much Hedy. I’m glad you enjoyed the green – I know that feeling well from years living in the Yukon when all is grey and white for months.
I liked the Buddhist temples in SE Asia best – no restrictions, only welcome, but I will be back in Arashiyama and if Don wants to see that temple I will go with him and sit in the main hall there and see what I feel when I get quiet and still.
Hugs to you too.
Alison
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I agree with you, in general I find Arashiyama to be enjoyable, but over-hyped (perhaps I was just spoiled: I had a mountain with natural bamboo forests to explore as my backyard in Kanazawa!) However, I did find the monkey park to be an unexpected delight. Observing them was a fascinating experience!
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Oh that must have been so wonderful to be able to explore a natural bamboo forest, no doubt without dozens of other people there. I did notice there’s an area of bamboo forest on the way up the hill behind Fushimi Inari and I think it’s not fenced off. If so I plan to wander in there. It’s the comparison thing that is always a problem and I’ve not yet figured out how not to do it. You had a natural bamboo forest to explore so understandably the forest in Arashiyama paled in comparison. Same for me having seen (if not walked through) natural bamboo forests in China. I was not expecting a fence even though it’s obvious in all the photos you see of it! I enjoyed the monkeys a lot, but it didn’t compare to seeing them in the wild.
We will go back there to take the boat trip (weather permitting) and maybe Don will want to see some of the things I saw there. I’m sure my mood will have improved!
Alison
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One of the many things I love about your blog is your raw honesty. I read so many travel blogs where every experience is the very best, and we all know that cannot possibly be the case. Many years ago Terry stopped being the sole photographer during our travels as he felt my focus was more on getting that perfect shot for the blog and both he and I were missing so much along the way. He was right and I still struggle with this but try not to think about potential blog photos when I get behind the lens. Although this was not your most pleasurable travel experience, your photos are lovely. I still wonder how I would do traveling solo.
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Thanks so much LuAnn. Travel is not always easy, and it was definitely challenging for me travelling without Don.
I too still struggle with getting the good shots for the blog versus being present to where I am. I must admit it’s nice to hear I’m not the only one with this issue. I’m getting better at it though, better at letting go and being happy with what photographs I do get.
We’re in India now and having been here twice before I’m feeling less pressure. Also we’re here in one town for a month so lots of time to go on rambling photo walks.
Alison
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Definitely too many tourists. I got to the Bamboo Forest really early in the morning, having got the first Shinkansen from Hiroshima to Kyoto. then the train from Kyoto. It was jammed. The path through the forest was just a sea of heads, so I ended up shooting elsewhere in the forest..
The rest of the day in Kyoto and surrounding districts was the same, jammed everywhere I went. Only time I hardly saw anyone was the last train from Kyoto back to Hiroshima
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I was unaware you could shoot elsewhere in the forest. Will investigate that when we’re back there in a couple of weeks. I wouldn’t bother going back to Arashiyama but we want to do the river trip from Kameoka so we’ll be there anyway. There’s also a bamboo forest up behind Fushimi Inari that I plan to investigate.
I too found Kyoto packed with tourists, and this time we’ll be there for the cherry blossoms so it will probably be even worse. Oh well – I’m sure we’ll still find things to enjoy, no doubt with some very early mornings required.
Alison
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