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Carnivale Masks, Italian pottery, Laundry as art, Lifestyle change, photography, retirement, The Mystery, travel, Venetian Masks
From Don:
Some of you who have been reading Ali’s blog about our European travels may have wondered how and why we came to be doing all this travelling. So here’s how it all began.
By way of background I trained as a neuropsychologist at McGill University in the late 1970’s and early 1980’s, and then went on to teach neuropsychology at the University of Victoria for six years. From 1991 until 2011 I had a successful private practice in Vancouver assessing the consequences of traumatic head and brain injuries. I pick up the story from late May 2011:
May 26, 2011: It’s time – everything in my little universe has conspired to push me into letting go of everything – work, home, life-style (such as it is) and moving on to whatever The Mystery wants of me. My enthusiasm for my work has almost gone, my bookings have diminished to zero as of the end of June, my health has deteriorated to the point where I went to VGH Emergency Department yesterday to get checked out for my potential to be at risk for a heart attack, and I’m going for an MRI of my brain Friday morning because of attention and memory problems. I get it – stop working, stop working, stop working and let the Creative Force of The Universe carry me wherever it wants me to go.
I clearly can’t go on as I have been – a few more months, even a couple more years, is not going to make any difference to my financial circumstances. Pray for clarity, pray for guidance, and remember that I am held in The Great Hands of Mystery. Here’s the opportunity to jump in and put my heart where my mouth has been – living the dream of travelling, just being, trusting The Mystery to provide whatever is needed in the moment, moment by moment. It can no longer be something that I consign to the realm of magical thinking or wish fulfillment – I need to keep feeling into and trusting The Mystery to support me. If I try to keep on doing what I’ve been doing I’m going to die or become incapacitated in some way – The Mystery has been pushing me to stop and I’ve finally listened and said YES! Yes to selling the apartment. Yes to travelling to Italy, India, Bali, wherever. Yes to trusting God – Good Orderly Direction, as Julia Cameron in The Artists’ Way puts it. Whenever the mind comes in with its reasons why not I will remind myself that I am always held in the Great Arms of The Mystery, and that to resist the flow of The Universe is to invite suffering in one form or another. Fear is the great stopper of flow. Joy, enthusiasm and willingness put me into the flow. Acceptance of things as they are keeps me in that flow.
I want to ask my spiritual teacher about ways to remind myself about The Truth of Life: that it’s all a moving picture show put on for my edification and entertainment. I’m the writer, director, editor, star, co-star, bit player, extra in the story of my life, and God is the creative genius who first suggested the theme for the show. I’m also cameraman, sound engineer, and stunt coordinator, stuntman, set dresser, costumer and make-up artist. I am voice coach, food truck driver, roustabout and every other participant in the creation of the show, and if I’m not happy with the way it’s turning out I have no one else to blame. Trust the Magic, trust the Mystery, keep moving, keep breathing, stay strong in the knowledge and belief that I am being guided every step of the way. I‘ve been a cynic all my life, unwilling to trust Good Orderly Direction and my life has reflected that. Yet despite my cynicism I’ve somehow managed to survive this far. Now it’s time for a radical shift and a great deepening of trust in Good Orderly Direction.
The next few months can be joyful or terrifying – it’s up to me how I choose to experience things. When I trust the flow all is well, when the mind steps in I forget and fear arises. Therefore I need to be continuously actively reminding myself to trust The Mystery, trust the Magic and let go of trying to control the outcome of whatever The Great Mystery has in store for me for the balance of my days here. I may be anywhere from 70 to 99 percent of my way through this incarnation. I may have great things to achieve in the world or just peace and joy and contentment in my being. I have no idea. All I can do is to keep listening, keep trusting, keep moving, keep writing, and stay focused on the desired outcome, which at this point in time appears to be to divest myself of the majority of my possessions – apartment, car, household goods – close my business practice, and travel. It feels like exactly the right thing to be doing even though fear keeps trying to insinuate itself. Arrange for a realtor to come and look at the apartment. Keep feeling, keep trusting, keep moving. There’s an energy in me now that has been dormant for years and I know that it will get stronger as I move forward into actualizing the goals that have been set for me by The Mystery. Travel (yeah), joy (yeah), enthusiasm (yeah), aliveness (yeah), and new energy for life (yeah). It’s all good: trust The Mystery, trust the Magic, keep moving forward with purpose. More life, more love, more trust, more . . .
From Alison:
And so that is what we do, moving forward, step by step on this great adventure. We are completely amazed and constantly blessed by the beauty of the world. To share the beauty here’s another small selection of my photographs – pottery, masks, and my strange fascination with laundry.
Gorgeous Italian Pottery
Beautiful Venetian Carnivale Masks
The Art of Laundry
This very last photograph is of a piece that was in an art exhibition in a cinema in Milan. I actually took four photos of it because it had lights swirling over it so it continually changed colour.
Next post: Positano and the Amalfi coast.
All words and images by Alison Louise Armstrong unless otherwise noted.
© Alison Louise Armstrong and Adventures in Wonderland – a pilgrimage of the heart, 2010-2015.
In the academy awards of your travelogue posts, this one takes top prize. Two contributors, one sharing deeply personal thoughts, one presenting magical visuals. Yup, works for me!I've always loved masks, so thanks for these, Alison! The laundry shots are amazing. Makes me want to make a painting. The underpants, though, they take the cake, the icing, and all the candles too.Thanks, Don! More, more, please.
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Thank you from both of us, for your enthusiasm and encouragement. So glad you're enjoying the blog. Don and Alison xoxox
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I love collecting stories, and quite a few years ago I stumbled in and bought Julia Cameron’s book, I browsed through its pages and thought… I don’t have writer’s/artist’s block. I do not need this one, and put it aside. When on my last visit to your blog I read this book has had a role in your life, I searched and found it, and, not because I want to leave tomorrow, but it’s been a time I’ve not be looking at my inner’s self, I’ve decided to go through it again. Before starting my morning pages, you’re in my thoughts, which is funny 🙂
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Ciao Roberta,
The Artist’s Way was such a catalyst for us, and such a blessing: we’d never have jumped off the cliffs we jumped off without it. I hope that your own Morning Pages will be equally illuminating for you.
I love the title of your blog “Accidental tourists” and the photos of your recent travels through Europe. I particularly liked the photo of you and Giovanni and Frodo on what looks like the upper deck of a boat at the top of your On The Road page.
Addio per ora,
Donaldo 🙂
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I don’t foresee such dramatic changes in my very next life, but i need some rebalancing and I do believe in coincidence :). Thank-you for taking up time to browse through our blog… in Italian, I’d love to have it bilingual but it’s hard work. Enjoy your Vancouver 🙂
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I just happen to see your blog.So exciting and how happy you must be.I am Haris ,male, 63 year old living in hyderabad, india and just took self retirement after leading a hectic lifestyle of working day in and out in managerial capacity never thinking of what I was missing all these years. I realised ,really wish to go around the wold and see places and meet people.I did start moving around my own country and a few neighbouring countries with low budget but not compromising ,where need to spend.My wife is not interested in visiting foreign countries but okay to go around places in India.Your blog inspired me and increased my passion to visit more places.
Going solo to foreign countries ,I feel, may not be good at this age,though I am physically fit to travel.I am looking for a right person of any country ,who would be willing to be my co-traveller.
Interested persons may contact me at chandra_ghc@yahoo.come.
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Hi Harris, nice to meet you. I hope you continue to travel and fulfill all your dreams. I really recommend you visit Matt Kepnes website for travel information:
http://www.nomadicmatt.com
And join his forum to connect with other travellers. There is even a section on the forum, called Travel Companions, devoted to people looking for just that. Perhaps there you will meet someone, or several different people to travel with. http://forums.nomadicmatt.com
Good luck and happy travels,
Alison
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Love the colours and got a good laugh from the last pic.
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Thanks Peggy. I was blown away by the laundry colours in Italy. And of course had to photograph the recycled knickers.
A.
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I bet a lot of people thought you were crazy or tried to talk you out of it, when we tell people we are thinking of retiring early and just traveling (but we are keeping a small home base) they really often get upset.
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Actually no one told us we were crazy. We didn’t get anything like that at all. Perhaps because I have no children and Don’s only child lives with his wife and children in another country so our decision didn’t really affect anyone. Do what’s right for you. Others will just have to get used to it.
Alison
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Its not the kids that they are upset about, they keep saying, what will you do with yourself, you will get bored, you should work a few more years, why would you stop now….. that is what we get all the time. I am really glad you did not get the negativity. But being told we could or should not do something has never stopped us before, in fact it is our lives, lol!
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Oh that’s so funny. How could you possibly get bored travelling? Glad to hear the negativity isn’t stopping you! I think people generally are afraid of change.
Alison
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There is something about laundry, isn’t there? My daughter has a collection of the Venetian masks too- some of which I contributed 🙂 🙂
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Definitely is something about laundry. I especially loved it here because of the bright colours.
And I loved the masks! So creative. Sadly my collection is only photographs, except for a tiny fridge magnet that a friend brought back for me.
Alison
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How lovely to read about the start of your journey! Thanks for sharing this. And that last photo hmmm, made me smile!
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Thanks Heather, my pleasure. When we first started it was a pretty interesting time that’s for sure. It took 4 months from when we made the decision to when we left – selling the car/condo/furniture, selling or giving away everything we owned, closing Don’s business – 4 months! It was so perfectly the right thing for us to do that all the doors opened.
Yeah, that last pic made me smile too 😁
Alison
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